I'm sorry if this will annoy you but, it is the Truth. You really have to take corrections now. Firstly, the reason why most single ladies are still struggling to find a husband at old age is because they are looking for a perfect man. If you are this lady, then "Something is wrong with you." Sorry to say that but it's true.
Maybe your propaganda magazine tells you that "All men are liars, cheats and useless", but what are you?? Let’s be honest here, which is more likely the truth in Africa...?? Is it that there’s something wrong with about 70 million African men, Or that there is something wrong with one African Woman?
Ladies! You certainly will not get into a blissful matrimony if you are always hanging out with your so called girlfriends every night at a night club or a bar, waiting for a guy to buy you a drink and take you home. Drinking yourself to stupor every Friday and Saturday nights does not exactly make you look like a marriage material.
You want a perfect man right? Invest in a good wardrobe, and dress responsibly. When a man comes to you, smile and be polite, even if he does not fit the mental image of your kind of man. Stop going into a relationship with a chip on your shoulder. If you believe all men are bad and all men are dogs, then it will become a self fulfilling prophesy.
Do not focus on where a man is now, but look and see where he has the potentials to be. What’s the point of being beaten to a pulp every night by some rich, good looking and non caring man?
Do you want a future where you will sit in your car in a traffic, with sunglasses covering your swollen eyes? or a happy couple on a bike, holding hands and laughing like newly wedded couple even after 12 years of marriage? Make the choice today!
Please don’t fake pregnancy or get pregnant to trap him. Your perfect man is out there, believe, work and pray and he will come around.
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Maybe your propaganda magazine tells you that "All men are liars, cheats and useless", but what are you?? Let’s be honest here, which is more likely the truth in Africa...?? Is it that there’s something wrong with about 70 million African men, Or that there is something wrong with one African Woman?
Ladies! You certainly will not get into a blissful matrimony if you are always hanging out with your so called girlfriends every night at a night club or a bar, waiting for a guy to buy you a drink and take you home. Drinking yourself to stupor every Friday and Saturday nights does not exactly make you look like a marriage material.
You want a perfect man right? Invest in a good wardrobe, and dress responsibly. When a man comes to you, smile and be polite, even if he does not fit the mental image of your kind of man. Stop going into a relationship with a chip on your shoulder. If you believe all men are bad and all men are dogs, then it will become a self fulfilling prophesy.
As for the truth, no man is perfect! Even you! You say you can't marry a blue collar guy...like a mechanic or carpenter. Did you not know that a carpenter was good enough to marry Mary, The Mother of Our Lord Jesus Christ, why isn't one good enough for you? lol!
Do not focus on where a man is now, but look and see where he has the potentials to be. What’s the point of being beaten to a pulp every night by some rich, good looking and non caring man?
Do you want a future where you will sit in your car in a traffic, with sunglasses covering your swollen eyes? or a happy couple on a bike, holding hands and laughing like newly wedded couple even after 12 years of marriage? Make the choice today!
Please don’t fake pregnancy or get pregnant to trap him. Your perfect man is out there, believe, work and pray and he will come around.
Photo Source: https://edc2.healthtap.com