However, here are five reasons why you don't have the kind of relationship you want:
1. You're not actually looking for love
When you are not doing anything to find love, yet you say you want love. Perhaps, you don't go out and you barely have friends. No way! Love isn't coming this way. Go out...a lot, make friend and if possible join every dating site.
2. You are scare and just pretending
You mostly talk about relationship like you introduced the word itself, but you barely know how it feels like. For men – You are just scare of the responsibilities and sure you can't cope with it yet you feel you want it. Stop being selfish and scared, go for it and be bold enough to take the lead.
3. You want to "have" love, and not "experience" love
If this is you, then it is obvious that you want love for the wrong reasons. The kind of love you seek is one that would make you magically feel happy, whole and safe. However, these are the things you must give to yourself first, before you enter into any relationship – no one or relationship will be able to give them to you the way you want it.
4. You seek only what you've known
Love could be standing right beside you, but you're so blind to see it because it's not a blonde, charming, 6'3", sexy hipster and the CEO of world bank, or the girl living next to you who you’ve found adorably wife-worthy. Don't go seeking a package you'd probably not cherish what's inside.
5. It’s you!
You're probably not doing the work you need to be doing. Love is general but when it becomes specific – that is, love for a particular person, cleaning your side as it's supposed to be becomes the key to winning. Some guys still believe a lady should accept them the way they are – No! Not all ladies, especially when you have a taste. There's need for you to shave, wash your clothes and look nice.
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