If you are experiencing a relationship, of any length, that involves frequent break-ups, make-ups, and on and off behaviour, here are some suggestion on how tackle or deal with it.
1. Identify who you are in the relationship
It is interesting to know that in every relationship, there is a figure each partner represents in the eyes of each other. One of the best remedies to an unstable relationship is to figure out who you are with or without him or her. Some partners may see each other as best friends, sex mates, just friends, pals helping each other and a lot more.2. Spend time with friends
If you don’t have any friends, make them. Join groups, get a hobby and get involved in your own life. Even couples in a healthy relationship need some time apart.3. Know what you really need
The worst thing that can happen to your future and life in general is when you always sit around, waiting for your partners move. There is need to identify yourself and know exactly what you need. Then, you can decide if your life is better with or without him/her.4. Go grow yourself
Take a personal growth time-out to get yourself ready for a relationship. The reason for your constant breakup and makeup could be because you are not ready. Be true to yourself, your goal and timeline. Then you can decide if the relationship is worth another shot.5. Trust yourself
There is nothing better than trusting and believing in oneself. Do not always be dependent and try as much as possible to show it. When your partner notices it, he/she wouldn’t want to toast you around anymore.Photo Credit: Listovative